Published in To Really Live·PinnedSmall stones to help me see beyond the Pandemic {introduction}Virginia Woolf famously said, “Life piles up so fast that I have no time to write out the equally fast rising mound of reflections” Life has since then piled up even faster. Life in the midst of a pandemic has piled up into mountains that will forever alter our view…Pandemic3 min read
May 11Identity Thievery Since Time Began and the FireWall We NeedIdentity Theft has been around since the dawn of time. Even before Erickson taught the world about Identity Crisis, we have all felt it in our bones. …Identity8 min read
Apr 18What If I Don’t Care About G-D?There are days I do feel that will be a dandy thing, one (very huge) less thing to deal with. In fact, when I was around nineteen, I decided to ditch all the G-D stuff. It’s not a small decision mind you, for I have always been religious. As a…Being Human5 min read
Mar 21A Pandemic GospelThis is for those who (want to) believe that good things can come out of bad. I understand that redemptive seeking does not come naturally to most of us, we are more prone to complain and pine for any pain to go away quickly. And the Pandemic has given us…Truth6 min read
Mar 14Sorry, not sorry, but I am angry for our childrenI rammed into the classroom where my daughter has holed up to study. “Gosh, I feel mad. Augh, why must I feel so angry about it?” Moms aren’t legitimately meant to be in classrooms, but I wanted to hang close to my baby. …Children8 min read
Mar 7To Design Your Life, You Need A BlueprintThe phrase ‘Hygiene Factors’ would probably trigger visuals of sanitizers and masks, when in fact psychologist Frederick Herzberg was thinking of motivational factors that contribute to work satisfaction. In our big wide world of humans-trying-to-make things-work, theories are constantly being churned out in every field with fascinating core ideas and…Future7 min read
Feb 15Nearly Losing Faith“Effort” said the fourteen-year-old. It is the one-word response I get from my teen when I suggest some idea or adventure. …Losing Faith6 min read
Jan 17The Unfinish-able Project Called ParentingSome days, I would like to be done with it, this parenting thing. Hang up my coat, close the dossier, mark it ‘done’ — and then I think of grandkids, and go all soft. In a rare moment, with only the two of us in the lift, my late mother…Legacy6 min read
Jan 10Embrace Your Exhaustion, Just Don’t Let It Kill You, please.Exhaustion can kill. Karoshi is the Japanese term for those who are found to have died from overwork, often collapsed on their office desks. There are other deaths too — when we give up and quit, become adversarial and attack, or change track as we hunker down and deaden to…Life8 min read